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Nickname boy names

One rule gets a name onto this list: it began as a short form or pet form of a longer name, and it is now handed out on its own as the whole thing. Jack from John, Theo from Theodore, Bram from Abraham.

Do you put the short form on the birth certificate?

The case for the short form. It is what he will be called, so putting anything else on the certificate creates a permanent gap between the legal name and the lived one, and a lifetime of correcting forms. Short names are easy to spell, easy to say in more than one language, and safe from being cut down into something you did not choose: nobody is going to shorten Bram. And the argument that these are not real names does not survive contact with the record. Jack has been an English name since the fourteenth century, Kees and Bram have been on Dutch registers for generations, and Leo, Max and Theo are now given far more often than the long names they came from.

The case against. The long form is optionality, and it only runs one way. A boy registered as Theodore can be Theo at six, Ted at twenty and Theodore on a contract at fifty; a boy registered as Theo cannot go the other way without a deed poll. Some fields still read a diminutive as casual on a masthead or a nameplate, and while that is unfair, it is not imaginary. There is also a rhythm problem worth listening for: a one-syllable first name in front of a one-syllable surname gives you nothing to work with, and Max Brand has less music in it than Maximilian Brand.

The workable middle. Split the decision across the two slots rather than agonising over one. Register the long form and use the short one from the first day, which is what most families who choose Theodore actually do; or register the short form and give him a long, formal middle name to fall back on, which is what Jack Alexander and Finn Sebastian are for. Either way, decide before he arrives which name goes on the school list, because whichever one the teacher reads out in September is the one that sticks. The middle names guide has more on balancing the two halves, and the classic names list is where most of the long forms live.

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